Let me spill you a little secret, love — the Universe isn’t ignoring you... you are ignoring the Universe.
Yes, really.
If you’ve been doing all the right things — journaling, manifesting, moon rituals, mindset work — and your desires still feel stuck on the other side of a cosmic glass ceiling… there’s a reason.
And I’m here to tell you:
It’s not because you’re not spiritual enough.
It’s not because you’re doing it wrong.
It’s because you don’t know how to receive.
💔 Why Receiving Feels So Hard for So Many Women
Let’s break down the big energetic blocks that keep your manifestation flow dammed up, even when your intentions are crystal clear.
1️⃣ We’ve Been Raised to Give, Not Receive
From a young age, women are taught to be nurturing, helpful, selfless — but we are rarely supported for saying:
“Actually, I need help today.”
“Yes please, I’ll receive that.”
“I’m going to rest instead of rescue.”
So we overgive. We martyr ourselves. And we confuse depletion with devotion.
2️⃣ Control Feels Safer Than Trust
Receiving requires surrender. Trust. Letting go.
And for women like me, who’ have been let down, abandoned, always had to be the strong one and learnt that you could really only rely on yourself?
Control feels a lot safer than vulnerability.
We keep giving because it keeps us in charge — but that same control might be blocking the very blessings we’re asking for.
3️⃣ There’s Guilt in Being Supported
We’ve been conditioned to believe that needing help is weakness. Or that putting ourselves first is selfish. So even when the Universe offers support — through people, money, or love — we push it away. We feel bad. We think we should be able to handle it all.
But here’s the sacred reframe:
✨ Receiving is not weakness. It’s healing.
💖 This Shows Up in Your Aura, Too
In your WealthCode, the energy of overgiving and self-sacrifice shows up as fuchsia pink — the signature of the Devoted Archetype.
The Devoted is heart-led, nurturing, and deeply committed to others... but when she forgets herself, she blocks the flow.
When she begins to receive, to nourish herself first, to trust the Universe — she becomes radiantly magnetic.
💫 She is a channel for love, abundance, and divine wealth.
☕ So How Do You Shift This?
Here are the exact steps I covered in my latest YouTube live. Here’s a little peek at what we dove into:
☕ Point 1 — Balance Starts With Giving to Yourself
You can’t pour from an empty cup.
Manifesting starts with self-giving — rest, love, boundaries, and energy devoted to YOU.
☕ Point 2 — Give Unconditionally, Trust the Universe
As you heal, you stop giving from a place of pressure or approval-seeking. You give from overflow — trusting Spirit will always replenish you.
☕ Point 3 — Receiving Is a Manifesting Superpower
You can’t manifest what you’re unwilling to receive.
Let love, support, and money land. Receiving is how you anchor the abundance you’re calling in.
🎥 Watch the Full Tea Spill here
This live is one of my most powerful — and most honest. If you’re ready to uncover your real manifesting block and finally open the flow, this one’s a must-watch.
👑 Ready to Go Deeper?
If this blog stirred something inside you — that pull in your belly, that whisper in your heart — it’s time to take the next step.
My Sacred & Sassy Manifesting Coaching Program is where we unravel these exact patterns, activate your WealthCode, and get your energy aligned with the abundance you know you're meant for.
We’ll work 1:1 to:
💫 Heal the overgiving wound
💫 Rewrite your money story
💫 Unlock your receiving channel
💫 And fully embody the version of you that receives with ease
🔥 Drop a comment or DM me the word SASSY and I’ll share the next steps with you.
You are worthy of more than struggle.
You’re allowed to receive.
And when you do? You become unstoppable.
With love and gratitude,